Being that it's your family the feeling in the room might be a tad bit more gentle but what usually wins people over is a method that proves to be working or some sort of progress made in the direction of a really good plan working.Secondly, I'm a REALLY BIG boxing fan, I know of boxing twins that reside in the Houston area, along with some other major players in the boxing world. 

Everybody was happy on this deal, except for the greedy lender.I’m really surprised how I can make so much money from a $1,500 investment and all the twists and turns it takes before the deal plays out.

But I would definitely bring in an attorney to help you structure the deal so that you're not left twisting in the wind.

I know the list will be long, so please be gentle!

The more you say, the more can be misinterpreted, twisted, and used against you.

As you drive through a neighborhood you may see the trees swaying in the gentle breeze or that paper cup blowing down the side of the road or even that sharp car that just zipped by you, but are you noticing the things you need to be noticing?

Much more effective to give a gentle nudge to someone moving to redirect than to get someone moving. 

You don't want them to twist the inspectors arm into accepting an poor fix. 

His equity was such that he might make a couple thousand dollars on the house after making the effort to fix it up and clean it, and paying real estate agents and other fees, so I could sort of see why he just wanted out.At first, I was planning to wholesale or bird-dog the house, just as a way to get a gentle introduction into real estate investing.After getting some advice on BP, though, I realized that if his only option to get out of the house with no work was selling sub2, there was no reason on earth for me to not purchase it myself!

Please feel free to pick apart this message and twist what I'm saying.