More specifically, whether the fact that they are defaulted is going to prevent me from getting a mortgage given that from a DTI assuming a 1-2% payment of outstanding balance periodically still leaves me well placed from a DTI perspective.

I'm originally from New York and I'm just used to thinking about real estate from a neighborhood to neighborhood perspective.  

This has "nightmare" written all over it.As @Erik W. pointed out, there are more than a few things here setting off red flags.With that said, regardless of whether this guy is on the up-and-up, it doesn't sound like you're actually in a position (from an education or experience) perspective to be able to help.Unless you have some previous capital raising experience and have a warmed up investor network (or you're sitting on a boatload of cash yourself), it's going to be a real uphill battle to get this thing funded.My biggest question is: Why is this guy coming to you (an admittedly new investor with no experience) to fund his deal?

As a San Diego investor with an interest in out of state investing (and two properties in contract in KC), I'm wondering where to best deploy my capital from a macroeconomic perspective.

CAVEAT: I don't flip houses, that's more business finance perspective.

., former employer 401k) to a solo 401k are not reported on Form 5498, but rather on Form 5500-EZ, but only if the air market value of the solo 401k exceeds $250K as of the end of the plan year (generally 12/31);When funds are rolled over or transferred from an IRA or 401k to a self-directed IRA, the amount deposited into the self-directed IRA is reported on Form 5498 by the receiving self-directed IRA custodian by May of the year following the rollover/transfer.Rollovers (provided the 60 day rollover window is satisfied) from an IRA to a Solo 401k or self-directed IRA are reported on lines 15a and 15b of Form 1040;Pre-tax IRA contributions on reported on line 32 of Form 1040;Pre-tax solo 401k contributions are reported on line 28 of Form 1040;Roth solo 401k funds are subject to RMDs;A Roth 401k may be transferred to a Roth IRA (Note that from a planning perspective, it may be advantageous to transfer Roth Solo 401k funds to a Roth IRA before turning age 70 ½ in order to escape the Roth RMD requirement applicable to Roth 401k contributions including Roth Solo 401k contributions and earnings.)

@Upen Patel, if I get the loan in my name, what would happen from a liability perspective?

It changed my entire perspective.

From her perspective if she is paying more a month "I am paying I want it to work and these don't clean my clothes properly".

Andrew from the legal perspective I think your lawyer friend answered that.