I also would like a service loan provider or some type of assistance to walk me through the first process, to understand the business and become more comfortable as I continue my note investing.

And if the buyer happens to be a savvy investor and starts to understand the situation you are in, they will try to lower the transaction price as much as they can. 

For areas that I’m looking at, I’ve come to understand that NJ has quite high property taxes, which can be very dependent on average housing prices, school districts, etc.

From my understanding, I'll need 20% equity in the house for me to do a cash out refi which may take years to accomplish. 

I understand Charlotte is Finance industry area and looks quite expensive.

It looks like you’ve learned the perils of partnering and wisely understand the benefits of investing as locally as possible.

It seems like everyone focuses on choosing certain states based on rental laws and fees and fails to mention the the primary LLC should be in the state where the property is- in which case the the other state options are not helpful.The wyoming legal office did offer to set up a parent company under which my other LLCs be owned-- which I understand that concept.Thanks again!

I don't know much about this, but it is my understanding the City of Jacksonville puts up a lot of red tape and there are a lot of hoops to go through. 

Sounds like you have a solid understanding of the path you want to take.

Links below should give you a good understanding of requirements.