He hasn't mentioned wanting to actively control it, though it is annoying to me that he wants to check up on me and he hasn't always been reasonable with me in the past, so I am wary of giving him the ability. 

@Wayne Brooks, I believe I read that somewhere about the ability to transfer to SMLLC as long as loan was originated after a certain date (within past few years).  

- Level of finish (even D-class properties can have different levels of finish)- Size of units- Specific Scope of Work- Your negotiating ability- Whether you will pull permitsAnd a whole bunch of other things...

What’s their capabilities as far as certifications such as pertaining to SEO implementation, web development, setting up and automating my processes utilizing the best of their abilities?

I would like to have the following features:-Automatic payment withdraw -Reporting to the credit bureaus -ability to receive a receipt after the payment is posted -reporting for tax purposes

That will give you the ability to at least be able to fight the charge back. 

., just not sure how our marriage affects our ability to each claim the 121 exclusion on property that was bought before the marriage but sold after the marriage. 

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It sounded like laws had changed the ability for agents to be able to discus this.

Instead, know your skills and your abilities and use that to help them and propose what you could do to help.