Jon is spot on, there will be disagreements and you must have an efficient way to handle them quickly.Whatever you do, do not assign each of you titles like Executive, Judicial and Legislative duties.

Also I recently finish creating a system that allow me to stay more organized and effective handle calls from sellers while still working my 9-5.

How do you handle this?

Again, 90% of the short sale listings will likely be handled by a handful of agents.As to your second question, that's a bit harder...

My company handles all aspects of home remodeling, however, if you are in a bind, I can try to help you out and send a person or myself to fix the problem.

Have a contractor walk through with you on the deal and try to get a handle on what this stuff would cost to modernize your deal or at least bring up to code.

Any advice on handling property with family?

She has also entrusted me with handling her finances, bills, taxes, etc.

Has anyone had issues like this and how did you handle it?

However, what you could do is find a Mortgage Broker that has this kind of experience, see if he can handle Foreclosure auction conventional loan.