I just don't want to be harassed.

But that's likely not required in this situation, given how close the landlord and tenant are.The landlord should also be careful not to harass the tenant. 

Also, there are folks that have had the same cellphone number for many years and when it comes to tenants and such,  wouldn't want them to have their direct cellphone number so as to not be getting calls at all times of the night and if I happen to one day get an irate tenant who I would need to evict, now that person has my direct cellphone number and can start harassing me, just because. 

To say the other team is harassing us is an understatement.  

 I'm not a lawyer but seems to me any further contact would give her ammo for a harassment charge and I have a hunch it wouldn't be the first.  

Shut him down pretty quick when he threatened to let his attorney to sue me for discrimination by telling him i  have attorney too and let your attorney talk to mine, if he is going to call me again, i will sue him for harassment.

You would have to file for a certificate of no harassment through HPD or DOB and then go through permit processes for alterations.

If felt it was harassing at least.  

This president has clearly overstepped his authority and has put myself and my son in harms way by discussing blatant lies about us with him,even knowing I have had my brother removed from the property three times by the police for his aggressive and abusive behavior.Do I pay this fine even though I do not own a car, and what can I do to get him to stop harassing us.

This is now true of several other unit owners I have spoken to over the past few weeks; They are all sick and tired of being harassed and/or bullied by the HOA and simply want to have nothing to do with it anymore.Interestingly enough, I learned the reasoning behind the new imposition about two months ago when I went to the AGM.