I always love to see the positive attitude - that's half the battle.

The history of New Haven and Hartford lead me to believe that these major cities could make a comeback in the next 10-20 years.

 I have been researching and browsing through bigger pockets and different real estate investment info but haven’t pulled the trigger on anything.

You now have possession of the apartment. 

The guy inside was named Alex; he wasn't the owner, but the contractor.

If they over-promise and under-deliver, transfer the next property to a different PM.

I think you would be wise to sell and use the VA loan for your new home. 

So, your focus may need to pivot from high rental cash flow to little to no cash flow as a rental with an appreciation upside.I would recommend taking your $150K to $200K and securing a solid equity position in something that will cover its expenses and maybe provide a small cash flow, but then is poised to appreciate nicely over the course of the next several years. 

So many variables can turn a deal sideways from 1 hour to the next - i.e. inspection findings, title issues, contracts, financing issues, taxes, dept. of buildings/local municipalities, etc.I'm glad to hear you made it through the challenges, and it sounds like you'll be able to leverage this experience as you grow your portfolio.All the best to you along your journey!

@Jung Lee, Welcome to the community!