., the real estate market tanking, family deaths & serious illnesses, culminating in my own cancer diagnosis in 2010 (not playing the sympathy card, just explaining my circumstances).

If you can't maintain your rent and save, get a cheaper place.When it comes to cars, I don't believe you'll find much sympathy here in regards to new cars - there is a very extensive thread here on BP on the subject, and the overwhelming majority have paid cash for inexpensive, functional vehicles (Our car, recently purchased, is a 2005 Kia Sportage with 60k miles, paid $5,600 cash).  

She, too, said she felt just like a number.My sympathies are with you.Originally posted by Michael Quarles:This was my shallow attempt to get people to think past money.Such irony...from the man that has helped teach me and others to make so much of it ....But honestly, part of the lure of this business is to help others.

If i mail it to the latter, should I show sympathy and send my condolences or should I get straight to the point?

Unless you've been through foreclosure yourself, I think you mean 'sympathy.'

I was actually quite surprised that it didn't stink.At the end of it all, I'm not really sure where my sympathies lie.

While I have some sympathy for them as we moved across the country for work and had to find a place in 3 days that also accepts a large dog, it also gives me some perspective.  

As I was already struggling financially after my separation, it just seemed like there was no sympathy.

Hello Thivierge,First of all, I will to express some sympathy in regards to your current situation.

Sympathy can go a long way as well though.