Mom is in the nursing home, and is not coming back, the home is old and outdated, but everything works, but all the stuff is there.2.

So what I propose may or may not work in your situation and is based only on the information you shared in your post.You and tenant agreed to a move-out date of January 1, 2019 with an appointment for 4pm for the final walk-through and handing over of the keys.  

You need to set a dead move out date and stick to your guns.

Compared to the newer developments, our community is bit outdated (built in the 1960s).

You don't have to go through with it if they come up with the money before the set out date.

All outdated utilities.

But if it’s a move in ready or just outdated place then go for it.

Anyone have good luck with the rustoleum product to paint outdated countertops?  

If you're buying central you'll likely have to deal with 40-50 years old house (old plumbing, electrical, outdated floorplan, lower ceilings, 1-car or no garage, etc) that will generate higher repair bills during your ownership and higher property taxes.

I saw a house in a nice neighborhood that looks kind of outdated.