. - We have 2 children (ages 9 and 11).

@Pietro GaglioUse this database to help find average cost of care in your particular zip code.https://www.genworth.com/aging-and-you/finances/cost-of-care...If you're in Clinton Township it's roughly $4200, however keep in mind that this is just average.

Anyway, thanks for the note  I hear you on reducing stress, not sure of your age, but I won't 'go there' on the stress and quality of life side of things....I'm more patient than I used to be for sure.As far as what could be next - sounds incredibly non sensical and irresponsible - yet, move it all including yourself to a Colorado ski town.

The previous owners invested over $12M into building it between 2009-2012 but then left it vacant for years, allowing it to naturally age.

That being said, it's not true that multi-family will be as easy to buy as you age.

Not a perfect plan but it's flexible without age min of 59.5 to access or RMDs when you're 70 or whatever.

There are many buildings with systems reaching the end of their life - Galvanized hot water risers, leaking vent stacks, aging window systems, outdated elevator and fire safety equipment.

As you've noticed, rental property insurance is extremely tough to find in Louisiana right now, and will be highly dependent on the age of the roofs on your properties.

The CoC return very likely won't be as amazing as those seen in the US due to the stringent lending requirements in Spain.How's the business been going for you in Valencia so far?

Myself and family truly loved the property and house; just want others opinions on if this may be a mistake to proceed, or does this appear common practice for the age and location (upstate New York).