It may also be useful to consult with an expert to ensure the terms align with both parties' goals.

I think it could give you a better sense of what aligns with your strategy. 

They aren't experts in the alignment of how various real estate strategies can align with personal financial goals (i.e.

Yes, it appears we are aligned on the 11-month lease concept.

It could give you insights into how the deal is looking versus what is being reported to you (hopefully this aligns pretty closely).  

Bigger budget things like heated pools or hot tubs are always great if the costs align with your property.

Make sure you’re on the same page with your partner and that your goals are aligned.

Title insurance, settlement fees, and recording fees can vary, so you could request updated estimates as you get closer to the closing date.If you’re expecting to stay under $5,000 out of pocket, double-check the loan estimate to ensure this aligns with your DPA and the amount you're being asked to bring to the table at closing.

This aligns well with your frugal lifestyle and long-term investment goals.Refinancing Now: While this means a higher interest rate and increased mortgage payments, it removes your ex from the mortgage immediately, simplifying your financial situation.

I’d recommend starting with a property type that aligns with your long-term goals—could be cash flow or appreciation.