Seems like they only meet every 3 months, and I missed the last one due to a personal conflict. 

Her response was pathetic, in my opinion-"I feel like it may be an ethical conflict since I am also the closing agent and I have to be careful how I present myself in this situation.

I just found these guys in San Diego who will represent me legally and also act as my real estate broker on the deal.Are there any conflicts here?

Most wholesalers tend to market to absentee owners to avoid being in conflict with this. 

2 Would wholesaling be conflict of interest ?

The bank will never (in my short experience) sell/negotiate a property with an outside buyer- this would not only be a conflict of interests against other parties, but it could also give more profit loss.

I hear conflicting info on what the limit is, but I didn’t want to be limited.

Then another issue, you can't really inspect a property you have another interest in as an agent, you'll have a conflict of interest and liability issues.

I decided to get my license instead because I felt there where many conflicts in my values with wholesaling.

I'm conflicted between taking longer to scout out a deal or two here locally in Utah where I live in order to get my feet wet and a better overall process in place before going out of state OR just jumping in and buying the investment property in a market like Cleveland and BRRRing it (essentially the same thing from what  I can tell, minus having to sell it) to get familiar with the process.