Just be a nice/likable person and try to be a problem solver.  

I would like to use the above information to nudge her to call me, but at what point does an owner go from thinking of you as the problem solver to the creepy investor who knows too much about what (I assume) owners believe is fairly personal information (even if it is public record)?

Be a problem solver if a wholesaler needs help.  

I think the skill that is most critical is to learn how to become a "problem solver".Pete

View yourself as a problem solver helping the person rather than someone trying to "talk" someone into doing something for you.I really like Ned Carey's question "What are you going to do if it doesn't sell?"

Trying to be a problem solver instead of just another fish in the sea.

A contractor is problem solver who knows how to keep projects moving despite all the challenges that come their way.Here is a small list of all things that can go wrong:- Contractor doesn't show up as scheduled.

Be a problem solver with the owners.

nancing; to maintenance; to landlord & tenant issues; to working with partners, Eric has experienced most facets of building a real investment portfolio.As an effective real estate problem solver, Eric loves to help others overcome the obstacles faced in real estate investment, including breaking through the hurdles of getting started and providing property analysis consultation.  

I would also like to hear more about how we are problem solvers. there was a recent one about having a lot that didn't transfer and it was a working progress.