Maybe that's how I'm perceived at this point from the players that could actually bring me the deals I want.

This is the moment to become a bigtime player or simply build a safe portfolio of passive income. $500K gives you so many options. 

A player is risking his whole capital every minute during a poker night. 

Networking groups are also a great way to gain exposure.Break through the “Rookie Wall”This sports metaphor refers to first-year players who suddenly stop having the kind of success they did before they made it to the professional level.

Find the key players who are actively buying properties.

I’d narrow your search to one maybe two max and seek to build relationships with the tips @Theo Hicks provided.It pays to be a player in the market so breaking in will cost you more at first than those who have been there before you.

Often, these contacts will then introduce you to other contacts who are legit players in RE.

If you are just starting out you probably should invest in your own backyard before trying to become a "big time player" investing out of state.

When I was struggling to find the next best move and looking at his last move, he said "beginner players let stronger players lead them around the board because they don't understand the strength of their own position."

I have not seen this guy on BP in a year just another wholesaler that appears to be a one and one player.