If they are on month-to-month, they shouldn't be upset... they will, of course, but they shouldn't.  

Sometimes, you can outbid the bank, bit in most cases the bank bid (called the UPSET bid) is the base mortgage amount, which renders it a poor deal.

Be leery of family deals, it will upset the family dynamics! 

That actually was the cost of a room addition:)  But some potential buyers were actually upset that I would 'make that much' selling it. 

If the seller is simply told "I'm buying your house" the seller is legitimately entitled to be upset if the wholesaler later comes back and says "sorry, can't close, keep my $10".OTOH, If the conversation was that the wholesaler is going to try to find a buyer, and the purchase and sale agreement is what allows them to do that and to collect their fee, then backing out is not so bad.

If the upset price is $35,000 and the costs $5,000 and you win the bid at $35,000, would you pay about $40,000 to buy it and close?

I was trilled, not upset. 

I've had a lot of lowball offers come in to my clients, they're usually upset and less likely to negotiate, I also tell them that if they would take something that low, I'd like a chance to speak with some of my investors and I'll cut my 6% commission a little in appreciation.

so I just finished at 3 day class with flipping formula and the guys who did the class had the nerve to ask us 4 an extra $40,000 to take an advanced class what do you guys think about that and there were a few suckers that paid it now the advanced class was they were able to get mentors or the mentors would help them find properties and walk them hand-in-hand through the cell or the wholesale or the rehab of the property that they decided to build on or whatever then they also were able to go to an investor Summit and Las Vegas and you know a few other things that you know came with the $40,000 now mind you I was highly upset because I had already given $2,000 for the 3 day class and they really didn't give us anything the only reason why I did it is because I can get my $2,000 back if I can make a purchase and sell in 90 days I'll get it back or if I don't make a purchase or a cell in 6 months I can get it back so tell me what you guys think

The agent told me wife that the homeowner was upset that we didn't request approval for a puppy but we in fact clearly communicated our intent with the agents prior to signing the lease.