Find someone who does a good amount of volume and won’t be threatened by you and offer tot take them out to lunch (not just coffee).

And then to prove their power they threaten you with penalties because now your old paint has faded and is not in compliance with the approved colors, or it is peeling or whatever.The POA is controlled by folks that moved here from NY, east coast, etc, not locals and they have let their position go to their heads, plus they really like rules to control others.

Simply looking at financials is frivolous and dangerous and such recommendations threaten the longevity of his wealth. 

They send a letter out and send often a realtor to inspect them unannounced.They have cited those broke the rule asking for corrective action and threaten to cancel the insurance.

After a barrage of threatening and profanity-laced texting to “cost us 100x more” in damage if we don’t follow through, we agreed on $300.

Or maybe threaten to sue for that or breach of contract, or something else?  

Threaten to cancel the contract.Not sure you know this.

If you ever feel threatened, call the police.

Even if they threaten a lawsuit, I don't think they have grounds.You might want to check the Master insurance policy of the Condominium and see what it covers.

I know that South Africa is threatening to take the land of white farmers which will cause starvation because blacks in South Africa don't know how to farm.