I can't stress enough how often I see investors go all in for the fix and flip loans, but fail to property plan ahead for the perm loans.  

If it is causing you stress and headaches.

I believe NOW though Brokers do have documents and what if authority to manage these situations..

There are several that we use in these situations (Personalumbrella.com, RLI, USLI, ....). 

Tell him your situation and what you want to do (i.e., investment) and they have some criteria ready such as you want a private living area for your family, backyard, # of bathrooms, etc.4.

I feel the same as he does.Here's what helps me in those situations...figure out the plan if things don't go according to plan. 

Let's be honest, in most situations like this, is the buyer Agent really providing all that much value that the buyer would not get if they just wrote the offer through your wife?

I actually do need to find a property in the next 90 days due to my work situation changing, but it seems like an almost impossible task.

Just curious what others would do in this situation.

I doubt you will make enough to make it worth the management fees and stress when you can make and take a tidy profit and invest that into multiple investment properties and use the VA loan to buy your personal residence where you are going.