I’ve worked with developers in the past that were set on the building they wanted only to discover that it wasn’t feasible from a building code and zoning standpoint.

However, as I learn more about commercial loans, I’m discovering that lenders will require experience with similar types of investments, as well as net worth and liquidity requirements.

Apparently, James walked over to measure the noise level and discovered Steve’s door was cracked open.

That's how I lost it for myself and my family of 6.I don't mind sharing my situation as I don't see what happened as a character flaw.

The premise of the question was flawed.

In spite of all that work we discovered that the hot water heater didn't work (they didn't bother to replace a $300 water heater that their initial 4 point inspection stated was original to the house (1983).  

This clause is a significant risk because if the lender discovers the transfer, they can call the loan due.Although many lenders do not routinely enforce this clause, especially if payments are current, it is a risk you and the new buyer must understand and accept.Disclosure:Full disclosure to the new buyer is crucial.

As you've already discovered, dealing with their cosigner can also create a lot of extra work and come with problems, particularly if you have a helicopter parent or two.Home care for four residents?

Your ASSUMING that you as a buyer can FORCE you're will and desires upon sellers and there brokers is significantly flawed.

The fact that you discovered concerning information about the male tenant's past after signing the lease complicates matters.