She did take a picture of my child's room with the cat in the photo.

I think you need to cut him out of your life and your child's, at least for a while.

I was born in Cuba, but I have been in this amazing country since I was a child.

I think Section 8 will still consider an adult child a dependent, if that person is still in school. 

Only way we can probably get in another property this soon would be if we had a child( the need for more room) or the property Is real close to my job which from what I’m told by some lenders would be a good enough reason for the underwriter.

So based off this calculation I determined that my portfolio is strong enough to move on with my expansion plan into a new market.Business expenses as % of total expenses : 70%   1) Fixed Expenses:        a)Monthly Mortgages: 45% b)Property Taxes: 18.7%c)Utilities Expenses: 14.8% d)Licenses & Insurance:  5.4% 2) Variable expense - Water bills + repair expense : 16%  Personal Expense as % of total expenses: 30% My monthly living expensesa)Housing: 39.7% b)Child Care: 25.4%c)Living expense: 22.2% d) Food: 7.9 %e) Insurance: 4.8Income 1) Total Income - 100%  A) Rental Income: 42%  B) Wage income (W-2) : 26 %  C) House Flipping Revenue: 23%  D) Property Management Revenue: 5%  E) Stocks/Dividends: 4% Please let me know if you would like help walking through this process as it has been super helpful to understand my financial situation or send you the spread sheet I used.  

So based off this calculation I determined that my portfolio is strong enough to move on with my expansion plan into a new market.Business expenses as % of total expenses : 70% 1) Fixed Expenses: a)Monthly Mortgages: 45% b)Property Taxes: 18.7%c)Utilities Expenses: 14.8% d)Licenses & Insurance: 5.4% 2) Variable expense - Water bills + repair expense : 16%Personal Expense as % of total expenses: 30% My monthly living expensesa)Housing: 39.7%b)Child Care: 25.4%c)Living expense: 22.2%d) Food: 7.9 %e) Insurance: 4.8Income 1) Total Income - 100% A) Rental Income: 42% B) Wage income (W-2) : 26 % C) House Flipping Revenue: 23% D) Property Management Revenue: 5% E) Stocks/Dividends: 4% Please let me know if you would like help walking through this process as it has been super helpful to understand my financial situation or send you the spread sheet I used.

This would be perfectly fine and something we recommend if a parent wants to 1031 into a house for a child - Make a lease, collect rent, declare income, and then gift back to the child if you really don't want to collect rent.It sounds like the way you've done it is a little fuzzier. 

I am not sure how long it was before the window units came into play, but any nights without them were probably hell, and dangerous for the child.

I would stare at house plan books for hours on end as a child, before creating my own floor plans.