I think this would be really insightful to other rookies who maybe have a fear of failing or are struggling right now.

That is where LPs can feel free to share their real experiences without fear of any potential bad blood or retaliation from GPs.

As for the vacancy I can afford maybe a few months but one of the reasons I haven’t got into real estate is the fear of vacancies and then not having the money to cover expenses.

I want to pursue the case without legal help but I fear she might use my email to double down on harassment claims and go for appeal.Really down atm so please advise :)

My #1 fear going into this was partying guests disturbing neighbors and damaging the property.

That is their fear, that this won't work.

No one is going to come to your door stalking you, but feel free to pay a few grand a year to "hide" your identity that will be able to be found in 15 minutes or in a request from the tenant if they request ownership of the LLC or the operating agreement to understand who they are signing a lease with.

@Jerell Edmonds is right that many of us, including myself, waited because of fear and feelings. 

Is it fear of losing money?

As soon as you act decisively, demonstrate no fear, do not coward to his threats, and make it clear that you are managing to the lease without concession, he will stop thumbing his chest and making crazy demands.