I literally had a soft pull from SOFI a few days ago then i got a letter in the mail today... i guess the llcs who pull our credit reports will sell our informaion to anyone for "pre-approved" offers?

If I don't spend that money every month, whether I get a deal or not, if I let the fear of losing money keep me from doing business, I might as well just sell all my houses, put the proceeds into government securities, and go get a cushy job working 9-5, 5 days a week, with good health benefits, a soft chair to sit in, and hopefully some kind of pension at the end of it all.If I had $5,000 sitting around and the fear of losing it was keeping me from doing anything, I'd just spend that ****.

I just permitted a garage ADU using SB9 in LA for 6k in soft costs including the Habitat Study.

Doug Hey Doug, I am a wholesaler that likes to do a 'soft' negotiation on the phone.

We haven’t yet been able to find a job in which performance and pay aren’t tied closely to emotional intelligence.I find many US Veterans and NCAA Student Athletes have strong EQ.What do you think, @Bill GulleyIs USA just WAY TOO SOFT?

. :)  Same soft request to everybody else.

And, I still manage to keep my hands soft ;).

In general, I've always thought of (and seen) luxury suffering first and then that softness moving down to middle and lower tier properties.   

so I am on the phone with lots of tire kickers that seem very unmotivated..I make a soft pass with where my numbers would likely be...After it appears that there is no true motivation or it looks like numbers will never work, does anyone send actual offers to these people?

I think we as a society have gotten way too soft about defending your right.