Even with all those issues seems like a great deal as you said  But at what emotional cost? 

Happy to dive deeper if you want to chat more about the details!

I'm sure this is taking quite the emotional toll on you, in addition to taking away precious time from your day where you aren't able to source additional deals.I would also go after the lawyer and report this conduct to the board of ethics. 

I think that no one here will be able to answer your question ultimately as it is an emotional decision with constraints that only you fully comprehend. 

If the math won't work there, then the deal is probably not going to be worth a deeper investigation. 

Or do I need to wait until I've decided on one realtor to provide the deeper financial info?   

I dived deeper on the " leasing property part" and the only clarification is not to lease the property to disqualified persons.

Happy to help dive deeper into your options if you’d like!

Lead with Emotional Intelligence Empathy and Understanding: They show empathy, understand individual strengths and challenges, and provide emotional support when necessary.

I also don't know all your circumstances ... but I provide the source for you to dig into it deeper down below.