I strongly disagree with the mentality among a lot of doctors out there of "I HAVE to pay off all of my student debt before starting my life."

I've found some very genuine people through BP, truly interested in helping others and having that abundance mentality. 

I don't mind that because I have a "start where you can and do what you can do" mentality (and as I have heard so many times even on these boards, "all it takes is one deal to turn everything around no matter how small your marketing").

Don’t be afraid to build a portfolio and you need to get a different mentality on money and investing if you expect to do well in this business .

I have goals and an overall plan, just not the CEO in corner office mentality. 

It would be ridiculous in my opinion to demand one on a property that I didn't bring to the buyer.That being said, I am doing my own form of off market farming, but more of a targeted-area traditional MLS listing AND/OR potential off-market deal, depending on condition as I am completely mentally exhausted and done with my service business that currently pays my bills (and wastes my time :) ) and have a burning desire to replace its income with RE commission ASAP so I can roll up my sleeves and start building a RE empire full time. 

One more thing to add to my mental list of things that could happen... 

It is a tough field where I believe many of you here mention when you are starting off you have to get prepared mentally you wont have an income for a while.If anyone here in the Arizona area, I would love to link up and learn more. 

I think the issue you bring up about people thinking wholesalers have some sort of obligation to hand hold sellers comes from the communistic nanny state mentality. 

Kids grow up with a throw away mentality and don't know how to fix things and have never worked on anything.