I have never witnessed such pompous attitudes in my lifetime....

I've spoken with all of them about it, and their attitude is they see no problem!

Depends of the attitude and demeanor of the contractor .   

@Abraham HirschRight attitude and approach! 

@Justin Bioc Welcome.Just looking to get some second, third, and fourth opinions before I blow it on my first deal.Let's try this again with a little more positive attitude...

take it as a long walk to freedom.learn, learn,learn and absorb the beliefs/attitude/mindset of successful wholesalers 

Some Realtors have a patronizing attitude to property owners assuming that the owner doesn't know anything and doing things like refusing to give the owner enough information to screen while not screening prospects either.  

Sounds like you have the right attitude to get where you want to be. 

I would deny just based on her attitude.  

It is much eaiser for them to tell you no and stick to some absurd rules when you are playing telephone tag or in an e-mail as opposed to when you go and talk to them face to face, with a good attitude and common sense on your side.At the very least it will let you put a face to the name and company and do the same for the bank which might make them more likely to be lenient in their lending with a KNOWN person and not just some guy on the phone wanting to borrow money.