. - More importantly, you're confronting a person who is dealing with a distressed property situation and pride can certainly get in the way of having a productive conversation. so it's important to keep that in mind.- While many people may not welcome you with open arms, its a conversation that they need to have. they may not want to have it with you lol but if they ignore situation, it won't turn out well for them.- The follow up. this is something I have to work on as well.

Also, be ready for confrontation if you are living there as the property manager.

We find that if you confront people and call them out nicely, most of the time they will come around and do what is right. 

I'm worried about the confrontations and that they might trash my place.  

I confront the "cash buyer" with the knowledge that he has listed my property as a wholesale property.  

It doesn't have to be confrontational, just firm.

When we confronted Preston Letts, all he did was lie to our face.

He didn’t think it was necessary to case the windows in, and as my wife put it, they looked like “prison windows”.After receiving enough critical feedback to know it wasn’t an anomaly, I confronted him about the shoddy workmanship.

I'm not looking for confrontation but if one is brought, I handle it seamlessly!

You need to contact a lawyer and confront this head on.