I’d love to learn from all of you, connect with like-minded people, and eventually achieve financial freedom together! 

My long-term goal would be investing in large scale hotels, I know I know, that's quite ambitious, but I don't mind starting small and working my way up there, as long as I start from somewhere!

You’re not going to find a safe way to do what you want unless you or the “buyer” has enough cash to pay off the note. 

I’m trying to figure out how I can pay myself and buy another property.

Good luck with keeping any paying customers you have left.

All rents you get from this property has to go back into the SDIRA but if you get a 20 year mortgage (that the rent can cover) and can pay the rental off by age 65 you will have turned that $90K into several hundred thousand’s of paid off real estate.

While using QuickBooks it is a mind set and you have to accept the process and procedures to use it as a real estate and property management software.

I don’t mind SMF investing.

In return, they will be motivated to get a job and pay back every dime owed while lavishing you with praise.

Marie, Please keep in mind that when you see people referencing with these funds it's because they are invested in these funds, bought the sales pitch hook, line and sinker and are being told by the operator, "don't worry about the market, we're experienced and conservative so you'll get all your money back and a tidy profit.