Making another investor feel stupid or dishonest has a chilling effect.

While I personally believe that it is dishonest and that's why I do not practice this myself, they should have been more forthcoming with you about it I see this situation happen from time to time.

The property had a quit claim deed because of a dishonest lawyer/investor that hid a $37,000 lien from the buyer (my D-Day War Hero).

You sound like a bad tenant and, as a professional manager, I would probably want to get rid of you.I can tell you're either dishonest or you have a terrible attorney because you claim the attorney told you to ride the lease out until 2020 but you don't even have a signed lease!

That's not even dishonest, it's just human nature.

I feel like if I would have done this to a prior tenant I would have lost in small claims for dishonest use of deposit and failure to act in a stepwise fashion (replace one section/attempt to clean first. 

What if she's dishonest and fabricates a claim about "our verbal agreement said [fill in the blank]" and uses it to screw you? 

Promising people you'll buy their house without the ability to close is deeply wrong ethically and arguably illegal.Wholesaling is not, lying to sellers telling them they will close without intending to do so.Wholesaling SIMPLY means assigning the contract to an other buyer for a fee.You can do it the wrong and dishonest way, or you can do it the right way.And for petes sake everyone.. 

Colton, I'm down the road from you in Caton.

That is extremely dishonest.