People with no skin in the game are telling you it is not hte blue mans fault even based on what you told them. 

I understand not buying more up there, but your initial investment there will turn out well.You can check out the BiggerPockets video podcast and leave a comment if you have questions. 

Then you need to leave 40%-50% of your money in the deal to get it refinanced which then makes it difficult to scale. 

If you dont sort out your global cashflow, this may only prolong the inevitable at the expense of your equity.Option 2 would be leave CA and shrink your balance sheet by selling the properties and paying off the CC debt.

After arrival they're disappointed to find it's not a private bedroom, which leads to disgruntled guests that search for way to get a refund and leave bad reviews.

To avoid similar rip offs in the future, the investor needs to bear responsibility for vetting any investment offering they're contemplating, or if not just leave your money in government guaranteed investments (like FDIC insured bank accounts).  

When you leave voicemails and emails to Debbie P you get responses from a Kathy Tran and Sylvia Flores is wanting you to pay your invoice and then they tried to charge me $45 later for my next bid because I canceled but I canceled with an enough time to do my due diligence and discovered they are fraud so my account can sit there with $45 owed because I will never pay them

People have to remember that the seller finance space fills the gaps that the banks leave behind. 

It makes a huge difference if you can solve that problem for them.If you get the sense that there's someone who will NOT leave and make life hell, then it may be worth getting out of the deal (I don't know the specifics).Good luck!

Sure, but then you’re probably leaving money on the table, and who wants that?