Find out if she's willing to do that for 3-4 years, then you guys could have multiple multi-family investments, then buy a primary home in a good school district when your son or daughter is about to start school. 

I got one for my daughter and they are wicked scary. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01FHG3IN2/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o08_s00?

My future father in law is most interested in ensuring his daughter's interests were I to do this as a business full time, and leave my day job, asking for 30% of the appreciation of the value of the business or 5% of the appreciation of the value of the business if I continue to be an investor in the business as a "secondary" job.

Both my daughters did the same (with a little push) & it's paid off in spades.

My daughter is trying to do the same thing in the Washington DC area now and having trouble finding anything close to that good. 

The caveat to the first option is I want to keep the same company name as it is our daughters initials.

We had a young daughter who woke up in the middle of the night sometimes.

My daughter ordered hers as seconds ,they came in mismatched different colors and  she had them painted to match.

Don't use her daughter as collateral.

But the lady who is the victim had a dream to create a retreat for addictions  as her daughter had passed away from an OD .. so it was her mission and she was far more emotionally involved with this other than just losing 10k.. to these fraud's.