Then when he got to the disclosure about us being required to disclose information to law enforcement if they request it to fulfill the regulations associated with the patriot act he got up.

As far as the marital issue, counseling or not, really listen to your wife about why she feels it is important to help this person, then see if you can come up with a compromise, like have him move but agree to volunteer with her at a homeless shelter nearby or something else that fulfills both her need to help with your need for privacy.  

If they did something legally wrong and have to be sued then the court will decide whether that paragraph is able to be valid and fulfilled.

Ultimately if they can't pay and won't live together so they can afford the place you are going to have to figure a way to get your property back and rented to someone who can afford it.This happens all the time and it's not generally productive to try and make them fulfill the term of the lease.

This is the problem with trying to fulfill your due diligence while a tenant is in place...

I fulfilled my lease and when I was moving out, I asked Mgmt to take my name of since I wasn't renewing  but my roommate was.

., but if I understood your previous post, you were suggesting someone take a holding deposit FEE, that could only be converted to a security deposit if/when the tenant moved into the property AND FULFILLED THE CONTRACT THEY WILLFULLY ENTERED INTO.

With that said, if the owner released your friends from the lease contract then they are no longer obligated to fulfill the contract.

Did they fulfill the lease term?

Plus she has already fulfilled her obligation by getting that doctors note so she would be in the clear.In terms of insurance I would check so you are covered but make sure to tell the insurance that the animal is service animal as they too cannot discriminate.