Embrace it, and overcome.Plus you need that HS diploma for so many things. 

Misogyny also often operates through sexual harassment, coercion, and psychological techniques aimed at controlling women, and by legally or socially excluding women from full citizenship.

I am looking into joining a local REI club, however they either meet in locations too distant for me or at times I can’t make currently, that or they are for women only.

If you can't break the relationship between those two people....your bid is a waste of time.You might want to contact all the women who live alone and are at least 70 years old with lots of equity.

You can use the extra savings, as well as just embracing a more frugal lifestyle to save for the OOS investments. 

I really like the first unit, I even talked to the tenant and the tenant is a middle age women living with her 3 daughters, and seemed very nice and personable to talk to.

Are the good men and women at FHA going to launch an investigation as to why the buyer didn't move in?

There's a local monthly meetup called "InvestHer" of all like minded women either already investing in RE or looking to invest. 

It might make sense to have stronger barriers to discourage this type of behavior, as there is a poster in particular that has been on here over the last month+ harassing many of the women posters, and every time he gets banned he's back the next day (or that day) with a new pseudonym.

The NW REIA has a meeting every other month in Beaverton focused on Financial Freedom for Women in real estate.