In their defense, people come and go at a fast clip.  

A major employer (a defense contractor) is located across the street.

If you can, use what you can from the lease agreement, and your documentation, for your defense and to position yourself to resolve this without taking it to court.Breathe.

Now a defense COULD be that you made an offer that the PM never delivered but the owner would have to back you up on that and you'd have to have proof.

But I can also see why people would not want to provide some of this material facts before seeing the property, you are putting them on the defensive. 

The world of Cyber is growing like wild fire and there are only 3-4 major locations for Department of Defense Cyber and San Antonio is one of them. 

However, when discussing saving seed money/down payments with her she starts to become a little defensive about our current position.

And, we provide no-cost audit defense if ever needed.

As far as us presenting out thoughts on the fair offer we were thinking of making, which was very reasonable and based solely on actual MLE cost, he was less than amicable and flat out declined to comment further after stating that the property cashflows and that’s that.To each his own, I figured it best to move on.The property has been on the market for close to 3 months now with recent $20K price reduction and to his defense, it might be that he is frustrated at this point that no one is buying and hates the idea of having to go lower.As some say, he may also have been trying to look out for me, just sad that it needed to come out the way it did.He probably is very aware of the structural issues and perhaps thinks that a male buyer would be more inclined to buy and flip the property, I don't know? 

Even with that idea, we do not know what type of defense that would really afford a borrower and if a note own in succession would be be responsible for damages.