I don't think you grasp the serious nature that could  unfold and you're still trying to make a deal out of this with the seller.

I tried to tell him they are not but he works for Apple and sees internet scams unfold all day long so he is very cautious. 

I would like to see how it would unfold between a potential buyer and the seller.

But I have one big flaw and that is not being able to see how a deal in wholesaling is able to unfold.

The way to think about it is he should be happy he meet you when it is all said and done because you added value and provided the right solution.The point is 80%+ should be you asking questions and maintaining control and allow your presentation to unfold from that position.At the very least it will be a great learning experience!

I guess that in itself is a lesson that, no matter how strong a team you have around you, one person is all it takes to unfold the hard work of many.I will PM you his details.

However as I see things unfold over time I become more and more concerned for our long-term future.My question for you is how do you suppose a note, mortgage 1st deed of trust or whatever, would still be enforceable if the dollar reaches zero or was ultimately replaced with another currency?

It would be great to see you around and hear how your journey unfolds.

The fact of the matter is that you had mixed feelings bordered on fear initially, then grew more confident, even when offer was rejected.As a result of your presentation and with the seller having that level of trust with your pitch, mannerism, style, patience and confidence she decided to revisit your offer and make the deal.Frankly, this shows how a relationship can unfold and be built upon.

There is a lot to unfold here and depends on a lot of other things like net worth, how many kids….. what is good for her may not be good for you..Seek an attorney, one that does this type of thing nationwide is kkos lawyers run by mark kohler.