Suggestion for community usability:Create a common GLOSSARYThere's a flock of newbies 'drinking from a fire hose' in REI. 

Don that is a very tragic event I am sure he has not dealt with fully if he has turned to drugs.You can't just stop doing something.You have to replace it with something else to fill the space.WHITE KNUCKLING and WILL POWER will eventually only lead to failure.My mom worked for years and years at a violence center for women and dealt with people that had issues.You can guide them and try to show the way but at the end of the day it is their choice to want to live or die.Just take in every moment your son is present and in the moment with you and try to cherish those memories.Right now your main goal is to protect the innocent children and take away any bad modeling behavior they are witnessing that can impact them for life.When you kick a habit you have to do something else.Example: Smoking - Bike Riding,Drinking- going to church,drugs-exercise etc.Everyone has stress in their lives and that will never change.As we get older the stress does not go away it just transforms into something else.You might used to have worried about money,then it's your kids,then it's old age,mortality etc.Until your son sees a counselor to deal with these issues and learn coping skills he is going to medicate himself to not feel anything.The first few sessions of therapy is just small talk.The real work begins later on and either people commit and dig in to work on issues or say "Oh I am fine now and get scared and run away".Many people go to their pastor but I feel they are not qualified as a drug abuse specialist or a licensed therapist to help them with situations like that.Don you don't control your son but YOU DO control how you react to what he does and how it impacts your life and family.Maybe you feel guilty for him seeing his mom go through that and enabled him out of guilt to make yourself feel better in the moment.All you can do everyday is work on yourself.If you do that you can have a positive impact on him that can do nothing but help.

Tell them to use bottled water to drink.

oh there going to invite you into their house and sit around and drink coffee while you accuse their kid of a crime!

There are several of us here in Orange County, and in fact we have a monthly meetup:3rd Wednesday of the month7:00 p.m.Round Table PizzaLake Forest (corner of Lake Forest Dr. and Lambert)Free (though we encourage everyone to support the business and buy food/drinks)Low key, casual atmosphere.

We think we have the best networking in the Boston area.Who: All are welcomeWhat: Free networking eventWhere: Ristorante Marcellino, 11 Cooper St, Waltham, MaWhen: Tuesday December 17, 2013Networking 6PMProgram 6:30PMJoin us for dinner, drinks or both.

There is a reason people pay $1.69 for a drink at a "convenience store" when they can buy the same one at a grocery store for $0.39.       

I'm late to the game when it comes to floating vinyl but I'm drinking the Kool-Aid now.

No matter if it's for air, water, whatever, even though they're the ones breathing/drinking it in.  

:>)  Some days, I hang around all day and night with David going around and sample food and drinks.