Empowering messages are definitely better than victim messages.

That's like asking, what's worse, men or women?

Let some other landlord take chances on her.I can tell you from first-hand experience (not me) that women who end up in abusive relationships, do so regularly.  

Many women do.

I graduated from a University that strives to help educate and empower the poor.

It will be more fun and empowering than trying to work things out with her, where she will always keep the upper hand.And you need to completely give up the idea of staying there and ever living in peace.  

On top of that, it was often incredibly hard for single women, or couples in a relationship that was outside of wedlock, to obtain mortgage financing.

For Ex--if you're entering your home -- and you've got a family or say the 20 year old  son and his friends hanging out and drinking beers on the porch ---this will be uncomfortable for the single mother on the 2nd floor and for the 2 professional women on the third. 

Women want equality, which means she is obligated to pay for her living expenses.

The tenant was a 70 year old women who had been in the apartment since 1990.