He prefers to stay in his comfort zone rather than risk feeling inadequate or rejected in a relationship that would challenge him to grow.By creating a narrative that vilifies attractive women, Jake shields himself from the discomfort of confronting his insecurities.This is very similar to how people feel about building a business, investing in real estate, starting a new hobby, or creating new relationships.

Or I could just buy 2 brrrs/ or dscrs and stay here. 

Short term it is difficult to make the numbers work, the cost of new construction and the time it takes to zone-plan-build are usually the main reasons why private investors stay clear.

Hello, I am graduating soon and I have the opportunity to either stay in Boston or Miami.

I tried to stay out of the way, but I had to stop several things from being done wrong—spaces between kitchen cabinets that were too small by at least an inch for the appliances to fit, a walk-in pantry being built that was too narrow for anyone but a child to get into.

Staying local and house hacking—especially now, before kids—gives you so much flexibility to set yourselves up for long-term success.Your financial foundation is super strong, and house hacking a quad sounds like an amazing first step for you two.

Folks just need to understand things never stay the same..

I would either stay in the stock market or diversify and invest in a fund/syndication/reit. 

At the refinance, I am able to get a loan for $180,000 and $20,000 of the money partner's money stays in the deal.

You can also search for local FB groups that specialize in longer term stays.