There are harsh penalties for failure to repay and taking money away from retirement savings is always risky and should not be a decision made lightly

I hear you and thank you for your input.Account Closed -  A bit of a harsh exchange between us my friend. 

Sorry to be so harsh but this is the equivalent of getting in a plane and asking how to fly it.

Perhaps you just posted now, and she became verified much earlier, but every day that property stays vacant you lose money.I realize that I sound harsh. 

Tony...it wasn't meant to be rude or harsh.

Your tone comes off harsh and not respectful of a blue collar profession. 

I had trouble finding a vendor due to a harsh winter last year. so I approached a vendor that had given me an estimate back in April 2021 (when I purchased the property). 

Hi Jim,This might seem harsh but,If the females future bothers you, say a prayer for her and make a donation to your local No-Kill Shelter for Animals--She's an adult and can fend for herself--and you have a business to run.It's best to not get interpersonal with the renters--they ALL have some problem or another--they are Adults and will have to sort them out for themselves. 

We got a quote from Kinetico which we know is top of the line but it was a bit overkill for our needs (quote was about $6k).Our water is pretty harsh on the skin not to mention can be hard on appliances which we'd like to keep working long term.

Unfortunatly, you've become too connected and emotionally attached to your tenants, as harsh at it sounds, you need to put an end to that.