I can see that others have already given some good advice, so I'll throw my 2 cents out there too..You said you two are preparing (financially) to retire and I assume you want a chill and relaxing style of retirement, right..? 

I don't begrudge anyone who wants to invest in stocks then chill on the sidelines and wait.

It's a cool and chill group.

Chill ..Let them do their job geez , that’s why you are paying them good money 

Painting can run anywhere from $2 a sqft and up depending on colors, chilling heights, trim etc. 

As well SD, people are more likely to utilize outdoor space for more chill space, making tight living more comfortable. 

Again, have a beer and chill.

Bums me out, I don’t party, we’re a quiet small family and my tenants in the front are also very chill and keep to themselves.

You need to chill a bit.

Tell her to chill out and if she is actually threatened or gets assaulted to call the police not to bother you You aren’t a community guidance counselor or a trauma call center .