That prevents one spouse from selling a property with homestead rights without knowledge of the person sharing those.   

You'll be amazed at how it keeps you organized and prevents those dreaded oversights and costly mistakes.

Also, is there some prevision I can put in the lease to prevent the tenant from blocking the drive access to the ADU/Boat and from physically messing with my stuff, such as a fee.

The estoppel is designed to confirm all information with all parties and prevent the landlord or tenant from lying about something.

Identify the key issues and buy new or do preventive maintenance. 

My goals are to provide financial freedom for my future family and establish a sustainable safety net if physical limitations prevent me from retiring from my current W-2s.

We're doing this for two main reasons: 1) Prevent his dad from doing something like a reverse mortgage and 2) Minimize the amount of money we need to contribute to their care. 

Are they to check for issues needing repairs, stains, preventative maintenance issues?

This rule prevents property flipping fraud.

I also hope we have a change in the White House and this requirement disappears immediately.It's interesting that this rule was created the rule to prevent companies from hiding criminal activity even though the vast majority of American companies will never engage in criminal activity.