Just thought I would say that you have a good attitude about investing and wholesaling.  

My problem was that I had a "can't do" attitude towards everything even though I considered myself a very upbeat, positive person.

Welcome, If success is not where you started but how far you go ... you'll probably go far with your attitude.

If you put yourself in their shoes, and handle them with the attitude of, "I want to help you!"

Another problem I see is the attitude of fiscal irresponsibility that's growing in the U.S.

Congratulations and great attitude.

Because, I don’t see this attitude getting any better.As investors do you see a change in the mentality of the end user landscape?

If you stay, I expect these things to happen: 1) your attitude needs to change... door slamming is not an appropriate way to deal with issues.

I can tell that you have a positive attitude towards what you do, so it's apparent this is just the first of many more to come. :)

The attitude on the ground will never be 100% right and you will always have problems unless you personally supervise or find a partner with experience and commitment to your project.It is much easier to do the bigger deals long distance ($500k+) because of the amounts involved.Always remember one of the most powerful tools in your rehab kit is "the eye of the master"- that's the guy who's supposed to know what he's doing and what's going on, aka; "The Boss"In my experience, long distance rehabs are extremely tricky and your Vendors will not be motivated to give you their best.