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11 September 2020 | 328 replies
Albeit most that request assistance as it stands RIGHT NOW... only a few weeks into this situation... are unwilling to take on the responsibility for themselves onto their shoulders and find it just easier to put it onto someone else... which is why we have instructed our PM's to 1) verify the tenant's unemployment with connection to COVID-19, 2) allow them to take advantage of the options above, deffer rent for only those that truly absolutely need it, and file for eviction for all the rest to be in place when courts start the process... because as mentioned above options remain in helping tenants make ends meet but not paying for a product you are currently consuming is never going to be an option, if it is... next time you go to the grocery store for food... a first level necessity... try to walkout with a cart full of it without paying and see if they'll absorb the cost - the audacity of the manager even trying to stop you!
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26 March 2020 | 5 replies
Most that pass the blame onto their customers as it stands RIGHT NOW... only a few weeks into this situation... are unwilling to take on the responsibility for themselves onto their shoulders and find it just easier to put it onto someone else...
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28 March 2020 | 6 replies
Because people are unable to see beyond their immediate circumstances or they are unwilling to keep pushing through difficult times to get back to the good.I don't know any successful person that didn't have pretty major failures in life.
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2 April 2020 | 14 replies
In essence, what the PM has told you is "I am unable or unwilling to do my job, and be paid by the people that pay me, so I expect you to take up my slack."
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12 February 2020 | 1 reply
You can't force them to adjust and you can't force them to loan money to you.If they are unwilling to change the appraisal, you'll have to find another lender and try again.
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24 February 2020 | 8 replies
If they are unable/unwilling to provide you with a clear explanation, that's a red flag.Some of this could be innocent.
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11 March 2020 | 29 replies
Well I told my agent to cancel my buyer agency agreement because I wasn’t interested in investing in Kansas anymore but was very unwilling to do that.
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4 June 2020 | 3 replies
Most people are receptive when you have someone trained to deal with foreclosure unwilling sellers and neighbors because it is a delicate conversation.
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24 June 2020 | 6 replies
The slow communication was a huge problem and the seller seemed unwilling to compromise on issues Or extend deadlines.
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10 June 2020 | 2 replies
Since these loans are not backed by fannie/freddie, banks are unwilling to commit to long-term fixed rates.