My point was (in more simple terms)  that by changing our perspective we can mitigate if not eliminate the unnecessary pressures of "perfection" Didn't miss your point at all...and of course all of the great ones started out looking for greatness.To paraphrase a great movie quote, "...of course it's hard. 

Maybe, there are some lakes to fish in, but other than going to movie theaters I did not see many things to do.In California, you can go ski in the snow less than 2 house from Los Angeles and go jet ski on a lake on the same day.

(humor added from the recent Nicole Kidman movie).

I live in Gardena California on the border of the now famous Compton California due to all the rapper murders and the new King Richard movie.

., outdoor movies every Tuesday night, a small general store that sells "Hard Liquor", wine and beer, as well as hot dogs, chips and soda near the road so passersby can purchase too.

I mean like the jungles of Vietnam in a movie.

Have you seen the movie, "A League of their Own"?

He's literally playing games, watching movies, and complaining about boredom.

Named house “Smoochie” from that Robin Williams/Edward Norton movie, and well because its purple.

Kind of stuff sci-movies are made of!