The ideal strategy for you depends a lot on your network and skill set.

Or an auto message suggesting this post on a different sub forum.  

My goal with REI is to gain financial freedom, spend more time with family here and that are out of town (and therefore cost more to go see), and to be able to buy the things I want ( I love cars and live very close to some luxury auto dealers lol)!

Given the abatement option could you continue to occupy 15% of the building with commercial tenants while the rest of the building is converted or is that a logistical nightmare/ideally are you seeking different long term commercial tenants if you go that route? 

Ideally, the software can integrate with my google calendar. 

(condos are cheaper, but not always ideal and the condo fees take a lot of the rent that could go to your mortgage). 

I have just over $200K left of owner-financing, but I'd like to obtain a cash-out mortgage/loan of $500K (ideally) to be able to pay off the previous owner and make some repairs, etc. 

You need to showcase the 3 pillars of conversions, in a light that aligns with what that audience's ideal cash buyer to work with is.Social media is a perfect outlet to showcase who you are, what you are like, and what it would be like to work with you, all of which are essential requirements for a conversion to take place.So Social media is not just another strategy to try out on its own stand-alone.

I tried getting an umbrella policy to protect myself in case something happens but was denied since not everyone in my household is under my auto insurance. 

I want to get both tenants under triple net leases for 5 years ideally.