Anxities (The long of it): Prices are going up quickly in Sacramento area and rents don't necessarily seem to be going up at the same rate, so I'm having a little anxiety about finding a good deal.

We have a 1957 built house which had foundation problems when we bought the house in 2016. The house had a crack all the way on one side of the house - stretching from living room, dining, kitchen and bedroom. Our con...

Its great to have so many different options but it causes be a lot of anxiety deciding on where to focus and build my expertise. ..

this anxiety is driving me nuts! 

plus our $12K/year property taxes don't make it cheap (thats on a assessed $280K home)  I look at other homes in various parts of the country, astounded at how chep taxes are, because that would take the anxiety out of unloaded a property when flipping. 

I should be excited but instead I can’t help but feel anxiety? 

These costs should be discrete in my mind because they are CapEx, and not OpEx and will be incurred in a relatively short period of time after purchase, and are non recurring (over the short and mid terms).  

Only complete income number is for rent, but if I have a one time payment or something that is not recurring how do i add that in, or are you saying that is something i should not add into the equation.

DTI is calculated by comparing what you currently earn to what your monthly recurring expenses are, plus your future expected housing payment.

Too much debt and self esteem issues, anxiety etc.