However, with the first time home buyer program there are certain stipulations one of which is it needs to be my primary residence within 60 days after close.  

You will want a solid operating agreement protecting both of you and stipulating how much you will pay him to manage it. 

The stipulation provides that the tenants agree to a final stay of execution to Dec. 15 and that the landlord will pay $500 to tenants lawyer (to be held into escrow), which will be released to the tenants only if they vacate by December 15.

My renters are refusing to comply with our signed lease agreement's stipulation to produce proof of renter's insurance of $300k liability per person, which is standard in all my rentals.

The law stipulates "end of the rental period" which would be the last day of the month regardless of the number of days. 

If there are any outside partners or stock holders, you need to have a professional attorney draw up the appropriate contracts clearly stipulating buy-out agreements, grounds for termination of any agreements or contracts, distribution of profits, etc.

My commercial loans have many stipulations, 3 of which are they can ask for my personal financials, the building financials and do an inspection a couple times a year.

Anyway to get around the stipulation?

Their rent has recently been raised to $1200 with the stipulation that they will move out when my brother graduates college, in July of 2019.

is there a need for legal jargon on these or can I type one up myself with stipulations and or a bullet agreement based on what I am asking?