It's one thing if you decided to open a restaurant with no guidance or mentorship and your restaurant failed, but to get people to sell their homes and you fail and then they are left in very bad situation because there are things you didn't realize or know about (without begging other people for help when you are in a last minute pickle) is kind of selfish.

How selfish is that for civilians to reap the benefits of their sacrifices while trying to avoid renting to them?

You might also try reading this post - if you want to find a mentor, don't be selfish - mentor someone else first, and begin giving. https://www.biggerpockets.com/...A mentor is not someone who is going to hold your hand through every minor obstacle.

Anytime I feel myself even being a little selfish or even thinking a selfish thought I think about this.

He is very selfish that way.

But he's got the chance to be selfish and move in.

LOOK IN OBITUARIESThis may seem dreadful and selfish but really, it can be wonderful IF you genuinely come from the right perspective that you are there to help the inheritor of the estate.

Storage is a must in a primary home & to be a bit more selfish instead of considering other people’s opinions Did you work with any real estate professionals (agents, lenders, etc.) that you'd recommend to others?

It's a business transaction and you're there to make as much money as you can without being greedy, selfish, or unreasonable.

There is absolutely no reason to feel you owe her anything since you are the one that has been disadvantaged by her selfish decision.