Has anyone else experienced this kind of mistreatment? 

Purchasing a “distressed” property and “repositioning” it requires significant capital for improvements, build outs, holding costs, maintenance.In looking for that “needle in a haystack” slam dunk great deal you’re competing with very knowledgable, greatly experienced investors with the cash to make no contingency offers and close in a few days.  

Is your Realtor an experienced STR host (more than likely, no).

Are there any local meet ups or websites on where to find more people who have a moderate level of experience meaning they are  somewhat experienced but still looking to collaborate and network with more inexperienced investors like myself.

It's really important that you work with an experienced loan officer or broker, especially on a time sensitive purchase transaction.

If things get tricky, consulting a local attorney experienced in landlord-tenant issues can help you handle the situation properly.

Assuming that is not the caseI would think that many of the posters are not very experienced with litigation, either civil or criminal.  

Regarding the payout inefficiencies, I remember the nightmare that some folks were experiencing with state unemployment benefits during Covid.

Only allow inspections after the contract is signed and locked in (if possible).Ultimately, gauge the buyer's credibility—are they responsive, experienced, and able to close?

Have a property in Springfield that I am experiencing the same problem.