Other states consider the "paid" date to be when the landlord receives the money for electronic payments. 

Contrary to what both faces of the media say - they try and stir the pot and over exaggerate everything.

Also, are there any social media websites with groups that I could network with that highlight investors & wholesalers? 

Do understand that you will have to pay mortgage insurance and the rate will be much higher then if you put down 20% or more. https://singlefamily.fanniemae.com/media/20786/display

These syndication educators teach you underwriting, give you lists of brokers, recommend you increase your social media visibility and are provided techniques and tools to raise capital.

You are watching too much content on social media.

If you do have money to invest in your wholesaling business, then you can pull lists from Prop Stream or List Source and skip trace them, use bandit signs, social media advertising, Google/Bing ads, Direct Mail, etc.

Social media is a double edged sword, that I don't think a lot of syndicators fully understood when tapping into it.  

Become a syndication Co-GP by lending the escrow funds for the true GP where you receive 1% of the GP share of project upside, then create website and social media marketing materials where you hold yourself out as THE GP for the syndication.5.

.--- Tactic 1: Branding and PR: Corcoran used media and public relations to build her brand and attract high-end clientele.--- Tactic 2: Niche Specialization: She focused on the New York market, becoming an expert in her area.--- Tactic 3: Empowering Agents: Corcoran built a strong team, providing them with the tools and support needed to excel, which in turn grew her business.These investors show that success in real estate often comes from a mix of strategic purchasing, market specialization, strong branding, and building robust teams.