The children are named on the lease with the dad, but they live primarily with their mom.

Similar for adult children still finding their way.  

We understand this can be challenging for our tenants, but we are planning for our children's future and teaching them about the REAL ESTATE benefits.Do any of you have suggestions as to how we can best approach this or can refer me to someone who can prepare a letter addressing our plans for the build?  

I'm not sure if there are any other next of kin; he has no children or spouse.  

I assume you had no children and lived frugal ?

Now, I'm tagging @Jason Wray here again incase there's any confusion but none of my children have access to my VA loan. 

We have an LLC and plan to put the properties in a trust for our adult children's future inheritance. 2: I started with nothing!

I recommend looking into areas near economic bases - close to Nationwide Children’s Hospital, Ohio State Campus, New Albany, etc.

My children may never join the military, but my decendents will all have benefits of USAA.  

Her children are elderly now but family bonds are strong and they still love gathering together so would love a gather spot of retreat like spot for them to sit and perhaps for family to go on holidays for events.