You might as well save yourself the anxiety and stress of rentals and just give up that Starbucks habit.  

Anxiety, double guessing and analysis will only delay you.  

I've read books (Turning Distress into Success; Performance Anxiety; Seller-Financing & RE Notes in the Dodd-Frank Era), explored the posts in this forum, listened to @Bob Malecki 's BP podcast episode, and now have some (hopefully reasonably intelligent) questions to ask.

What if there was a way to shake off some of that anxiety so that you could approach these potentially lucrative situations with more confidence...Or at least composure? 

Examples of such work or tasks include guiding people who are blind, alerting people who are deaf, pulling a wheelchair, alerting and protecting a person who is having a seizure, reminding a person with mental illness to take prescribed medications, calming a person with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) during an anxiety attack, or performing other duties.

(not the marriage part, but the anxiety that i get from thinking that this could be the one that gets me in the game) I love my wife!

I realize this isn't the quickest way to giant wealth but the security is easier on my anxiety!

Don't feed into my anxiety @Isaac Hobbs!

I was so glad she moved just the anxiety of the situation was stressful and I kept wondering what she'd try and find next. 

@Jennifer MacDonaldDoing another pressure test will help ease your anxiety.